there is no logic whatsoever behind doing this, i have never done any embarassing pictures whatsoever so they could only be from my online dating profile. this woman has caused no end of stress for my boyfriend and now she seems to be targetting me, is there anything i can do about this? its natrually embarassing for me that some psycho ex has sent pointless pics to my bosses! does anyone have any advice about this? She is really getting me down, i suffer from depression as it is and am trying to fight it. x
Answer:
Contact the police and get her charged for harrasment or something. or at least a scare!
restraining order sounds good..
If I were you, I would call your local police department and ask them what can be done. I have a feeling that would qualify as harassment, and your boyfriend should pursue it too.
take embarassing pictures of her and send them to her dad haha
Get a lawyer!she has no reason to have pics of you in the first place... you need to tell your ex to get her under control! What she is trying to do is defame you at your workplace...unless she works there too there is no reason for her to contact your employer for any reason...see if attorneys in your area give free consultations...because i doubt this will be the last of her harassment
unless she is making threats to your life or threats to cause harm to you theirs not allot you can do other than have your employer complain to the ISP about this person SPAMMING them.
Your employer should save all emails so that they can give a record of the number of emails that she is sending, its good practise to monitor the level of mailings from this person.
This then can be used as testament to the harassment and unwelcome attention that you are receiving.
Employ the help of Ted Bundy! On a serious note, yeah phone the police and get her done for harassment.
Try being creative ... file charges FOR INCITING violations of STALKING ... why - of course you are beautiful and by her sending pictures to your bosses - not only may it cause your bosses to sexually harrass you in the long run - as they stare at your pictures ... but; they could possibly start stalking you so you can't get them on charges of sexual harassments on the job.
File a PERMANENT INJUNCTION ORDER which is way more powerful than the protection order, as it is an extroidinary action that comes forth from extroidinary acts against you that you want to prevent FOREVER.
You can file for the Permanent Injunction Order as EX PARTE meaning the lady don't even know that it is in the court and the order can be signed by the evidence presented ... get your bosses to sign a statement that they received the pictures from her and that is probably all you need to show she is inciting any form of criminal acts against you or your person and you are scared and intimidated by her acts to solicit such crimes to be committed against you ...
Get the picture - get original and the judges will love the originality of it ... every one needs a change in their jobs to make them interesting and more enjoyable ... the judge will flip when you present such a lawful twist on laws he is supposed to uphold.
If you want real originality ... IF SHE GOT IT FROM YOUR DATING SERVICE ... ON LINE ... guess what she did by copying the pictures?? It is called copyright infringments and she don't have to sell it to violate the law - she violated it because she copied it and gave it away and used it for her personal use (enjoyment of making your life helllllll) ... and that would be easily provable if you can get one of the pictures and match it to the site - then contact the site by public information/open records act requesting information pertaining to any request to copy your information ...
Maybe you can get that site to prosecute ... and that would build credibility of that site that would advertise that those who copy such information would be prosecuted - as they protect their clients ... Twist the laws in a lawful manner and make lemonaide out of this situation ...
Or you could just forgive her?
Peace;
Aintmyfault
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Speak with the police department %26 go from there. As others have suggested a restraining order would be prudent too have to!!
Also hopefully your employeer is worth their salt and will speak with you on a kind basis and figure out a solution to this post haste.
You don't say where you work or what field. If this person comes into your work place for no reason other than to harrass you,it would be expident to have your employeer aware of this troubled person.
Don't let her get you down and depressed cause that would only add fuel to her fire already. You are worth more than that and don't ever forget it!!
You can rise above this and don't let her win at this.
Keep your head up and hold it high and speak with the police and file a restraining order ASAP.
Good luck,
Laura
p.s. don't leave work alone cause if she's really wacko it might not be safe to leave work alone. Walk with someone to your vehicle cause it's best to be safe than sorry!!
p.p.s. Also if possible print off the emails she sent to your boss and visit with an attorney also you might be able to haul her to small claims court too!! If she keeps on pestering she may have a jail cell with her name on it or a psych ward with her name on the door just for her!
Beat her fKn @$$. Ok no, but seriously, this is harrassment. Call the police station ask them what to do, file a restraining order whatnot. However, I'll warn you, at least here, restraining orders are a complete joke until something serious goes down. But atleast call teh cops, a deputy will come talk to you, explain the situation he should know what to do.
Get some pictures of her and have someone do some photo shop retouches to them of her in compromising positions and post them in her neighborhood. I think she'll get the idea.
DID I HEAR RESTRAINING ORDER !?... ya i did.. sounds like a good idea
Just ignore her - don't make an issue of it - I recently had someone in my lady friend's email box sending out fake emails pretending to be her.
Once we all knew someone had broken into the box - they went away. She is just a sad case and will go away eventually if you don't rise to the bait.
If anyone asks just say that it is some loony doing it - you don't know why - and ask them to ignore it.
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
My boyfriend just got put in jail?
And I was there for everything and I know he didnt do it I was there for everything. My so called friend was drunk and called the police on him and told them that he threatned to kill me and her and her two kids. My boyfriend is the sweetest guy in the world and he doesnt deserve this. Now this girl has put her current and past boyfriends in jail for similar crimes and then taken it back afterwards and has even got charged with mischief because of it. Now im not allowd to talk to my bf because of what she said and i just want to kno how i can get this resolved for the courts to let my bf come home. Hes out on bail but is to have no contact with me and this is really bothering me
Answer:
Ever think maybe you should chose your friends better?
Contact the prosecuting attorney's office and tell them you were there and no threat was made. Also emphasize that she was drunk and has done this in the past.
Didnt you talk to the cops when he was taken away? They should have asked if you wanted to press charges? And what your story was.
go to family court and petition the judge to lift the r.o.
then go to the prosecutors office or the police and file a malicous prosecution complaint,and see if the police can file a complaint for filing a false police report.
if there are other witnesses,bring them with you.
and dump the nutcase completely from your life.
i was charged similar years ago,spent the weekend in county cause no judge was on to set a bail amount.i was of coarse innocent,and the prosecutor asked me if i wanted to file a mal pro complaint.i declined because it was my wife and she was having drug problems,so i told her to get help or i would file.i had custody of my kids at the time so i was not in fear of her drug abuse around the kids.she got help and we are best friends to the day.
this stuff really irks me,domestic violence charges can ruin someones future and unfortunately are falsely filed all the time,and mostly it is men that are falsely accused,i think it is despicable and they need to modify the rules so people cant falsely file a complaint with no repurcussions.
Really you need to prove your friend has issues ...you can tell them to about you not wanting to press charges and he's never been violent torwards you..but it will work very lil because they feel if battered woman are that afraid...they will say anything out of fear...9which isnt always true) get a free consultation from a lawyer also and see what they say...but you really have to prove there are isssues within they're household and it escalated because of her alcohol consumption and adamosity she has for you...
Don't you have anything better to do than be a third rate troll?
If you can get in touch with your boyfriends lawyer, this may be your best option as a character witness or if you were with him the whole time or at certain times which could show or prove in court this other "so called friend" to be lying.
You could also try and talk to the police inspector in charge of the case
I'd suggest finding better friends.
Get a lawyer or talk to the public defender and let them know the circumstances of your case.
Answer:
Ever think maybe you should chose your friends better?
Contact the prosecuting attorney's office and tell them you were there and no threat was made. Also emphasize that she was drunk and has done this in the past.
Didnt you talk to the cops when he was taken away? They should have asked if you wanted to press charges? And what your story was.
go to family court and petition the judge to lift the r.o.
then go to the prosecutors office or the police and file a malicous prosecution complaint,and see if the police can file a complaint for filing a false police report.
if there are other witnesses,bring them with you.
and dump the nutcase completely from your life.
i was charged similar years ago,spent the weekend in county cause no judge was on to set a bail amount.i was of coarse innocent,and the prosecutor asked me if i wanted to file a mal pro complaint.i declined because it was my wife and she was having drug problems,so i told her to get help or i would file.i had custody of my kids at the time so i was not in fear of her drug abuse around the kids.she got help and we are best friends to the day.
this stuff really irks me,domestic violence charges can ruin someones future and unfortunately are falsely filed all the time,and mostly it is men that are falsely accused,i think it is despicable and they need to modify the rules so people cant falsely file a complaint with no repurcussions.
Really you need to prove your friend has issues ...you can tell them to about you not wanting to press charges and he's never been violent torwards you..but it will work very lil because they feel if battered woman are that afraid...they will say anything out of fear...9which isnt always true) get a free consultation from a lawyer also and see what they say...but you really have to prove there are isssues within they're household and it escalated because of her alcohol consumption and adamosity she has for you...
Don't you have anything better to do than be a third rate troll?
If you can get in touch with your boyfriends lawyer, this may be your best option as a character witness or if you were with him the whole time or at certain times which could show or prove in court this other "so called friend" to be lying.
You could also try and talk to the police inspector in charge of the case
I'd suggest finding better friends.
Get a lawyer or talk to the public defender and let them know the circumstances of your case.
My boss never pays anyone on time, what can we do to correct this?
2 other people and I work for a failing car dealer that hasn't sold cars in 2 years, we work in the shop and parts areas. We live in a small area (2k pop.) and there are not that many good family supporting jobs around. We do get paid (unlike a lot of my bosses bills) but it's always late. What can we do to correct this frequenting annoying problem?
Answer:
Call the Department of Labor. But if you cause your boss more problems, he might not be able to keep operating and fold the place up.
your best bet is to find a new job.ask yourself "is it going to any good to tell your boss you want paid on time?" does he really care? because if he doid he would pay you on time
Answer:
Call the Department of Labor. But if you cause your boss more problems, he might not be able to keep operating and fold the place up.
your best bet is to find a new job.ask yourself "is it going to any good to tell your boss you want paid on time?" does he really care? because if he doid he would pay you on time
My bf in jail continued?
And I was there for everything and I know he didnt do it I was there for everything. My so called friend was drunk and called the police on him and told them that he threatned to kill me and her and her two kids. My boyfriend is the sweetest guy in the world and he doesnt deserve this. Now this girl has put her current and past boyfriends in jail for similar crimes and then taken it back afterwards and has even got charged with mischief because of it. Now im not allowd to talk to my bf because of what she said and i just want to kno how i can get this resolved for the courts to let my bf come home. Hes out on bail but is to have no contact with me and this is really bothering me and when i talked to police they said i wasnt a credible witness because i am his girlfriend and im probbably tried to save him from going to jail
Answer:
His attorney should interview you as a witness. If your testimony is good he'll use you. Be able to show proof of her past mischief and call those guys as witnesses.
You don't need to be around a criminal. Have some self respect and find someone else. "Sweet" guys don't go to jail no matter what some girl says.
The best you can do is wait until his court date. You don't want to aggravate the situation by being caught with him because the judge is going to be irritated because he did not follow orders. Tell your friend to get a life and stay away from her and her kids. If she doesn't like your boyfriend enough to call the police then she don't like you either.
Answer:
His attorney should interview you as a witness. If your testimony is good he'll use you. Be able to show proof of her past mischief and call those guys as witnesses.
You don't need to be around a criminal. Have some self respect and find someone else. "Sweet" guys don't go to jail no matter what some girl says.
The best you can do is wait until his court date. You don't want to aggravate the situation by being caught with him because the judge is going to be irritated because he did not follow orders. Tell your friend to get a life and stay away from her and her kids. If she doesn't like your boyfriend enough to call the police then she don't like you either.
My bf & his son were arrested for cultivating and sales and he also got child endangerment for smoking w/son?
the cultivating was dropped and he plead guilty to sales and child endangerment, what are the chances of him getting any visitation with his kids
Answer:
About freakin' zero. And a good thing.
Class act of a boyfriend you have there.
Geez. Get a grip. Who says weed isn't wack?http://www.retrojunk.com/details_commerc...
a father will almost always get visitaion with his chld except in the case of child molestation and even then in a lot of cases
The court will probably require him to complete a drug treatment program and supervised visitation before allowing him to have unsupervised visitation with them.
I seriously doubt that any court will completely strip him of any type of visitation.
None. Especially after he had plead guilty to both.
It depends, his son may get to visit him in jail and when
he gets out he may get supervised visits.
You should be seeing a big RED flag, is this what you want?
a man that not only smokes marijuana but sells it as well?
I realize that love is blind but it doesn't have to be stupid.
You need to have a serious talk with your boyfriend and
get him to stop selling drugs (actually he should stop
smoking it as well because if he is caught with it again
he may face the same charges again). Or you need
to be willing to have separations from him while he
spends time in jail.
Try to get him to change his ways, I hate it when guys
do something fairly petty and screw up their lives and
the lives of those that love him.
Molly J - I seriously think it's about time that you started seeing other guys. This guy is a loser - get over him and expand your horizons.
He probally just has to go through some kind of treatment program. I know of people and their kids getting busted with alot harsher things than weed.. It depends on the degree of endangerment, age of the kid, and pretty much how the judge feels that day. He will probally have to have supervised visits for awhile. But in some cases, they hold it kind of like a contributing to minors case. Even though its illegal know matter how old you are. Now as far as the son living in the same household, well, sorry but I dont think that will happen anytime soon because they will still look at the cultivation even though not charged with it.
I see that you are asking this question over and over, hoping that a felony child endangerment charge won't hurt your boyfriend or your visitation rights.
A person who pleads guilty to felony child endangerment may be able to have visitation with his/her children. There is a strong public policy in our courts to try and keep children in contact with their parents. But the offending parent will have to successfully complete his or her sentence and may have additional restrictions placed on visitation. For example, the court may order only supervised visitation in a neutral location so that there is no danger that the child will be exposed to the same problems that led to the felony charge in the first place.
But--I hate offering you any hope. This man had no problem breaking the law, risking imprisonment, and then introduced his own child to drug abuse. And you stand by him! This guy is a loser, and you will be lost as well if you don't get out now.
Answer:
About freakin' zero. And a good thing.
Class act of a boyfriend you have there.
Geez. Get a grip. Who says weed isn't wack?http://www.retrojunk.com/details_commerc...
a father will almost always get visitaion with his chld except in the case of child molestation and even then in a lot of cases
The court will probably require him to complete a drug treatment program and supervised visitation before allowing him to have unsupervised visitation with them.
I seriously doubt that any court will completely strip him of any type of visitation.
None. Especially after he had plead guilty to both.
It depends, his son may get to visit him in jail and when
he gets out he may get supervised visits.
You should be seeing a big RED flag, is this what you want?
a man that not only smokes marijuana but sells it as well?
I realize that love is blind but it doesn't have to be stupid.
You need to have a serious talk with your boyfriend and
get him to stop selling drugs (actually he should stop
smoking it as well because if he is caught with it again
he may face the same charges again). Or you need
to be willing to have separations from him while he
spends time in jail.
Try to get him to change his ways, I hate it when guys
do something fairly petty and screw up their lives and
the lives of those that love him.
Molly J - I seriously think it's about time that you started seeing other guys. This guy is a loser - get over him and expand your horizons.
He probally just has to go through some kind of treatment program. I know of people and their kids getting busted with alot harsher things than weed.. It depends on the degree of endangerment, age of the kid, and pretty much how the judge feels that day. He will probally have to have supervised visits for awhile. But in some cases, they hold it kind of like a contributing to minors case. Even though its illegal know matter how old you are. Now as far as the son living in the same household, well, sorry but I dont think that will happen anytime soon because they will still look at the cultivation even though not charged with it.
I see that you are asking this question over and over, hoping that a felony child endangerment charge won't hurt your boyfriend or your visitation rights.
A person who pleads guilty to felony child endangerment may be able to have visitation with his/her children. There is a strong public policy in our courts to try and keep children in contact with their parents. But the offending parent will have to successfully complete his or her sentence and may have additional restrictions placed on visitation. For example, the court may order only supervised visitation in a neutral location so that there is no danger that the child will be exposed to the same problems that led to the felony charge in the first place.
But--I hate offering you any hope. This man had no problem breaking the law, risking imprisonment, and then introduced his own child to drug abuse. And you stand by him! This guy is a loser, and you will be lost as well if you don't get out now.
My best friend won the $96 million lottery last night and his dumbass forgot the ticket at my house, should I?
save him from his drug loving self and keep the ticket?
Should I stop making excuses, cash it, then move out of the country? Should I give it back to him and let him give me a couple million and watch him kill himself from the pill bottle to the grave?
Answer:
well, if my friend essentially left 96 mill at my house.bye bye friend. you could give him a couple of bucks to cover the cost of the ticket.
its not fair that he is going to spend it on drugs. but its his money. he should give you a bit of it, because you were kind enough to give it back to him. and don't worry, he'll have enough for the funeral.
Well, first of all I don't believe you that he won. Second of all, you would've be able to do it anyway, because he could sue you because of this post online. And if you are telling the truth, and don't want him to kill himself, then just rip it up. Or give it to a homeless person! OR, you could just cash it, and buy new friends!
Maybe he was out of it and wont remember the winning ticket.
heres the thing that people dont know, whenever someone wins millions and millions first thing is they might not be the only one to have won that day in which case the winnings might be split secondly if you do win soley then you have 2 choices, #1 except the full payout which is conciderably less then 96 million and also take the tax incurrence at the end of the year, or #2 take payments over 20-40 years in much smaller sums, also my last and final point when you claim you have won they do a very thorough investigation to see where you bought the ticket, what time it was bought, if any cameras spotted the buyer so on and so fourth so if you attempt to claim it they will see it wasnt you and you would be hauled off to jail, so might as well save yourself the hassle and give it back to your friend.
Should I stop making excuses, cash it, then move out of the country? Should I give it back to him and let him give me a couple million and watch him kill himself from the pill bottle to the grave?
Answer:
well, if my friend essentially left 96 mill at my house.bye bye friend. you could give him a couple of bucks to cover the cost of the ticket.
its not fair that he is going to spend it on drugs. but its his money. he should give you a bit of it, because you were kind enough to give it back to him. and don't worry, he'll have enough for the funeral.
Well, first of all I don't believe you that he won. Second of all, you would've be able to do it anyway, because he could sue you because of this post online. And if you are telling the truth, and don't want him to kill himself, then just rip it up. Or give it to a homeless person! OR, you could just cash it, and buy new friends!
Maybe he was out of it and wont remember the winning ticket.
heres the thing that people dont know, whenever someone wins millions and millions first thing is they might not be the only one to have won that day in which case the winnings might be split secondly if you do win soley then you have 2 choices, #1 except the full payout which is conciderably less then 96 million and also take the tax incurrence at the end of the year, or #2 take payments over 20-40 years in much smaller sums, also my last and final point when you claim you have won they do a very thorough investigation to see where you bought the ticket, what time it was bought, if any cameras spotted the buyer so on and so fourth so if you attempt to claim it they will see it wasnt you and you would be hauled off to jail, so might as well save yourself the hassle and give it back to your friend.
My bank decided to hold a check deposit after telling me it was available.?
We deposited a check into our bank account on Friday. It was for the amount of $4,000. I logged into the online banking today and checked our account and it said our available balance was -$345.00 and our ledger balance was $3,755. I talked to the bank representative and she said we were okay there was no problems. She opened up another window and saw there was a hold on it. According to her, the manager released the hold on the check and our receipt said at the time of deposit available balance $4,100. She even told us there was not a hold on the check and we were okay. The woman I spoke with said a second panel reviews the deposits at night and decided to put a hold on it. She said they don't let inform them when they do this, so I will have to be responsible for the overdraft charges they will apply because they decided to place a hold on it and not inform me. That's not right at all. Most of my purchases were small amounts. Not I'm looking at over $500 in overdraft fees.
Answer:
That is totally wrong! Go talk to the bank manager in person and explain exactly what you said here and ask for the overdraft fees to be refunded. They should have informed you when they decided to hold the check and since they didn't, you incurred the fees. It is their responsibility. Threaten to close your account if they don't refund the fees. Good luck!
This is most likely a matter of negotiation. My advise is to go in to the bnk. Be NICE and explain the issue. It's harder to refuse in person. All you need is one sympathetic person to waive the fees. If it doesn't work, go back the next day and try to speak with someone different.
Your only other option is small claims court. But, if they don't automatically take the fees out of your account, you should pay the fees by check and write "paid in protest" on the check. If you don't pay the fees, the bank could report you to credit agencies which could adversely affect your credit. But if you follow my advice, you can avoid all that and still preserve your right to sue.
Good luck.
Sounds like Bank Of America! The do love to jack us around don't they! They want you to know and get used to the fact THEY are in control of our money. Since all the rest of the banks except some really small independents are this way we will just have to live with it till something is done on a national level. Holding back checks is bad but the worst one is holding back payments so they can charge late fees this practice really burns my ***! This makes it necessary to do payments as certified mail to have proof the payment was made on time. It wouldn't hurt to get in touch with the branch manager and do some loud complaining in the bank!
Answer:
That is totally wrong! Go talk to the bank manager in person and explain exactly what you said here and ask for the overdraft fees to be refunded. They should have informed you when they decided to hold the check and since they didn't, you incurred the fees. It is their responsibility. Threaten to close your account if they don't refund the fees. Good luck!
This is most likely a matter of negotiation. My advise is to go in to the bnk. Be NICE and explain the issue. It's harder to refuse in person. All you need is one sympathetic person to waive the fees. If it doesn't work, go back the next day and try to speak with someone different.
Your only other option is small claims court. But, if they don't automatically take the fees out of your account, you should pay the fees by check and write "paid in protest" on the check. If you don't pay the fees, the bank could report you to credit agencies which could adversely affect your credit. But if you follow my advice, you can avoid all that and still preserve your right to sue.
Good luck.
Sounds like Bank Of America! The do love to jack us around don't they! They want you to know and get used to the fact THEY are in control of our money. Since all the rest of the banks except some really small independents are this way we will just have to live with it till something is done on a national level. Holding back checks is bad but the worst one is holding back payments so they can charge late fees this practice really burns my ***! This makes it necessary to do payments as certified mail to have proof the payment was made on time. It wouldn't hurt to get in touch with the branch manager and do some loud complaining in the bank!
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