there is no logic whatsoever behind doing this, i have never done any embarassing pictures whatsoever so they could only be from my online dating profile. this woman has caused no end of stress for my boyfriend and now she seems to be targetting me, is there anything i can do about this? its natrually embarassing for me that some psycho ex has sent pointless pics to my bosses! does anyone have any advice about this? She is really getting me down, i suffer from depression as it is and am trying to fight it. x
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Contact the police and get her charged for harrasment or something. or at least a scare!
restraining order sounds good..
If I were you, I would call your local police department and ask them what can be done. I have a feeling that would qualify as harassment, and your boyfriend should pursue it too.
take embarassing pictures of her and send them to her dad haha
Get a lawyer!she has no reason to have pics of you in the first place... you need to tell your ex to get her under control! What she is trying to do is defame you at your workplace...unless she works there too there is no reason for her to contact your employer for any reason...see if attorneys in your area give free consultations...because i doubt this will be the last of her harassment
unless she is making threats to your life or threats to cause harm to you theirs not allot you can do other than have your employer complain to the ISP about this person SPAMMING them.
Your employer should save all emails so that they can give a record of the number of emails that she is sending, its good practise to monitor the level of mailings from this person.
This then can be used as testament to the harassment and unwelcome attention that you are receiving.
Employ the help of Ted Bundy! On a serious note, yeah phone the police and get her done for harassment.
Try being creative ... file charges FOR INCITING violations of STALKING ... why - of course you are beautiful and by her sending pictures to your bosses - not only may it cause your bosses to sexually harrass you in the long run - as they stare at your pictures ... but; they could possibly start stalking you so you can't get them on charges of sexual harassments on the job.
File a PERMANENT INJUNCTION ORDER which is way more powerful than the protection order, as it is an extroidinary action that comes forth from extroidinary acts against you that you want to prevent FOREVER.
You can file for the Permanent Injunction Order as EX PARTE meaning the lady don't even know that it is in the court and the order can be signed by the evidence presented ... get your bosses to sign a statement that they received the pictures from her and that is probably all you need to show she is inciting any form of criminal acts against you or your person and you are scared and intimidated by her acts to solicit such crimes to be committed against you ...
Get the picture - get original and the judges will love the originality of it ... every one needs a change in their jobs to make them interesting and more enjoyable ... the judge will flip when you present such a lawful twist on laws he is supposed to uphold.
If you want real originality ... IF SHE GOT IT FROM YOUR DATING SERVICE ... ON LINE ... guess what she did by copying the pictures?? It is called copyright infringments and she don't have to sell it to violate the law - she violated it because she copied it and gave it away and used it for her personal use (enjoyment of making your life helllllll) ... and that would be easily provable if you can get one of the pictures and match it to the site - then contact the site by public information/open records act requesting information pertaining to any request to copy your information ...
Maybe you can get that site to prosecute ... and that would build credibility of that site that would advertise that those who copy such information would be prosecuted - as they protect their clients ... Twist the laws in a lawful manner and make lemonaide out of this situation ...
Or you could just forgive her?
Peace;
Aintmyfault
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Speak with the police department %26 go from there. As others have suggested a restraining order would be prudent too have to!!
Also hopefully your employeer is worth their salt and will speak with you on a kind basis and figure out a solution to this post haste.
You don't say where you work or what field. If this person comes into your work place for no reason other than to harrass you,it would be expident to have your employeer aware of this troubled person.
Don't let her get you down and depressed cause that would only add fuel to her fire already. You are worth more than that and don't ever forget it!!
You can rise above this and don't let her win at this.
Keep your head up and hold it high and speak with the police and file a restraining order ASAP.
Good luck,
Laura
p.s. don't leave work alone cause if she's really wacko it might not be safe to leave work alone. Walk with someone to your vehicle cause it's best to be safe than sorry!!
p.p.s. Also if possible print off the emails she sent to your boss and visit with an attorney also you might be able to haul her to small claims court too!! If she keeps on pestering she may have a jail cell with her name on it or a psych ward with her name on the door just for her!
Beat her fKn @$$. Ok no, but seriously, this is harrassment. Call the police station ask them what to do, file a restraining order whatnot. However, I'll warn you, at least here, restraining orders are a complete joke until something serious goes down. But atleast call teh cops, a deputy will come talk to you, explain the situation he should know what to do.
Get some pictures of her and have someone do some photo shop retouches to them of her in compromising positions and post them in her neighborhood. I think she'll get the idea.
DID I HEAR RESTRAINING ORDER !?... ya i did.. sounds like a good idea
Just ignore her - don't make an issue of it - I recently had someone in my lady friend's email box sending out fake emails pretending to be her.
Once we all knew someone had broken into the box - they went away. She is just a sad case and will go away eventually if you don't rise to the bait.
If anyone asks just say that it is some loony doing it - you don't know why - and ask them to ignore it.
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