am conserned with this and am looking for advice.About a month ago I caught my wife of 7 years cheating on me with numours men.I have the proof through pics, cell phone movies and email stuff.when I found out her little sister was at our house so I did not make a scene.One night she went to the other room to talk to a friend on the other phone because i had the sterio on,i went outside to feed the dog and heard through our bedroom window her talking to one of her lovers.I went into the room and was yelling and went for the phone.it started to become a grapple for the phone.then I backed off when it was getting too much.I never hit her or struck her.but she left and called the cops saing that I did.I never did .The cops never took pics or sent her to the hositptal.a cop came to my house and said he did no see marks or anything.But I got a summon in the mail sayin i got to go to court. my now soon to be ex says she went back and droped charges. is there any case? HELP!!
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If it is a criminal matter this can drag out. You wife can say she wants to drop the charges and the States attorney can pick it up.
I do not understand the summons. That sounds like it is civil. If it is criminal then you are looking at a warrant and an arrest!
I believe you mean that she is issuing a restraining order or an order of protection against you! If this is the case let me tell you! KISS HER ***! If not then a 72 emergency order then can be extended to up to 2 years.
No PROB? Well every time you have contact with the police, then the order of protection will pop up when they run your name! THE POLICE DO NOT KNOW YOUR STORY and will not care to hear it!
In conclusion, this is the plan. BE NICE TO THE WIFE (I know it sucks!!,) If she does not show then this will be dropped. If she does show then they will try to talk her out of it, but it still will be dropped. Then wait a few and then go through with the divorce or reconcile!
Hey, innocent until proven guilty! Just because she says you hit her does not mean that the courts will believe her. If she has no evidence then it is her word against yours... ok so you might have the motivation if she was cheating on you. How long after did she call the cops? If it was within the day, or even a few days, then no marks suggests you didnt hit her!
i don't think there is a case. however go to court. talk to the judge and see if you are in any trouble. you can call before the court date.
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